Trinette Collier Greene

Q: My husband started a business and I’m very proud of him but he won’t let me help him with any of the paperwork, bookkeeping, etc… Do you think he's hiding anything from me?

M.D. ~ Nosey or Not

A: It’s typical for a spouse to want to help their mate in a business. It sounds as though you are really proud and just want to help him out with anything if needed, and that’s great! That's being very supportive. However, ask your husband if you can be a part of his venture. If he declines your offer, it is OK. He’s not hiding anything from you.

Here are a few reasons why he may not want your help with those tasks but still needs your support:

1. He doesn’t want anyone to help him due to his pride
2. He wants to make you and his family proud
3. He may be entering this new venture so he can continue to provide for you and your family
4. This business may be something that he always wanted to build and it’s his opportunity
5. He wants you to support him by just being there

Don’t worry, you are part of his team. Continue praying for him, cheering him on and be his confidant in those times that will become a bit tough for him.

Until next time, laugh, love and live life!

Love,
AunT

Trinette Collier Greene is a Certified Relationship Stylist and Contributing Writer.

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