Mindset Matters by Cassandra Williams-Herbert

Maturity and Mindset

As we go through life, it is clear that the goals of an individual’s perceptions are higher than ever with our ambition to make a difference by improving the way we look and think about life.

Today's culture has influenced us at a rapid speed of fast learning with social media and technology. However, those of us that view maturity as another part of reaching our goals and ambition to succeed in life is the reality that seems to be on the rise. In my opinion, it's hard to tell when an individual actually reaches their mature peek, as well as an awareness that is hard to determine. Maturity is evidence through actions of how one deals and reacts to circumstances.

The world is changing, our opportunities are changing; it is surprising when we meet individuals that appear to be mature but miss so many attributes of understanding the mindset of growth within us. Maturity has indicators that will display at different levels and stages in your life. When you are going to another level, you must ask yourself: “Am I mature?” One should be mature enough to handle their next goal(s), relationships, and business of unfamiliar ground to succeed.

Key things I look for when I seek maturity in a person.

1. A mature person is able to communicate and keep obligations.
2. A mature person is a good listener, open to constructive criticism.
3. A mature person's decisions are based on what's right.
4. A mature person shows humility.
5. A mature person expresses gratitude.
6. A mature person knows how to prioritize.
7. A mature person is observant of oneself and others.
8. A mature person conducts in a matter of understanding and honor.
9. A mature person seeks wisdom before acting.
10. A mature person is secure with their identity.

Most essential, a mature person will always remain Teachable. The Bible tells us in Psalm 1:1 “Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of scoffers, but his delight is in the law of the Lord and his law he meditates day and night." A mature person understands they don’t know all the answers. The wiser they get the more wisdom is applied to understanding. Proverbs 15:22 “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers, they succeed." A wise mature person develops the mindset to seek wisdom. Proverbs 3:5-6 “ Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge to him and he will make your path straight."

A mature person with a changed mindset is able to obtain principles and wisdom gained through learning, lived experiences from environment lived or desire to live.