Q: A friend of mine stated that I was in a toxic relationship. What are the signs of a toxic relationship?
Signed: T.O.~I Love Him
A: Well, due to the lack of details provided, let’s take inventory. Here are some questions that you can ask yourself to see if you are in a toxic relationship or not. This is not a complete list but it will give you a start in evaluating your relationship.
A: Well, due to the lack of details provided, let’s take inventory. Here are some questions that you can ask yourself to see if you are in a toxic relationship or not. This is not a complete list but it will give you a start in evaluating your relationship.
- Is this ONE friend or MANY friends who are telling you that you are in a toxic relationship?
- What is happening around this friend to cause such concern?
- Are you being abused physically, mentally or orally?
- Are you unable to think for yourself? Is your partner telling you when, where, what, how?
- Has your partner alienated you from your friends, family or both?
- Is your partner jealous of you or your circle of friends/family?
- Does your partner add value to the relationship?
- What goals are set for you, him, both?
- How does your partner treat his family (parents, siblings, friends)?
- Is your partner experiencing any mental illness that is causing you to make unhealthy decisions?
- Is your partner supportive of your personal and professional goals?
- Are YOU happy in your relationship?
Love ya,
AunT
Trinette Collier Green is a Certified Relationship Stylist
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