Q: How do you relay to your partner your needs (your sex drive is in overdrive)?

Signed: M.C. ~ Energized Kitten

A: Well, Energized Kitten, you need to come in from the back door! If you are a mature kitten, then yes, your sex drive is in overdrive and you can’t control that. So you will need to be totally honest with him but in a soft and seductive way. Don’t hurt his ego, be gentle and explain that you are attracted to him and that you are feeling a little more frisky than before! 

Let him know that you want and NEED him NOW! :) Most husbands/partners really don’t understand the changes in women especially the sexual drive. 

You may want to consult with your OB/GYN and ask him to come along so that he can hear it from a professional. You can also seek help from a professional Sex Therapist. I found that to be really helpful with our discussions. Also, find books or articles on how to involve your partner in the process because it is a process that your partner has to work through.

In his mind, he may be thinking all kinds of things and not understand that your body is wanting him and in an urgency. I’m truly finding that communication on sex is essential in relationships. No more hiding or being afraid to talk about it and say a little prayer as well. God knows!

Until next time, I’ll chat with you later!

Love ya,
AunT

Trinette Collier Green is a Certified Relationship Stylist
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