Friday, February 16, 2018




Q: How does a person stay true to self?

Signed: F.P. ~ Self Love

A: This is a good question and one that many of us struggle with over time. Staying true to self-seems like an easy task but it's really not.


We learn who we are through life experiences. These experiences will mold us over the course of time, challenging us as we learn who you are. We grow, make mistakes, learn to forgive and move forward. During these moments, we sometimes forget to remain true to self because we’ve built our life based on friends, family, and other relationships. We tend to find ourselves trying to please everyone, losing our identity, self-worth and more.

How does a person stay true to self? Be completely honest with your feelings about life and the things that take place in your life. Your relationships with people, your wants/desires, dreams/goals, and more. Take charge of who you are by believing in yourself. Build a wall of resilience because life will find a way to beat you down if you allow it. Establish a regimen of positive affirmations, prayers, or mantras that will help you with your true identity. Surround yourself with a village of friends and family who will build you in truth, not what you are wanting to hear but your truth. Live and walk in your truth daily. Remember that everyone will not accept your true self and it’s ok.

Until next time, I’ll chat with you later! Always laugh, live, and love life…you only have one to live.

Love ya,

Ask AunT


Trinette Collier Green is a Certified Relationship Stylist
Submit your questions to simplycindyblog@gmail.com

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